Nameless Woman Accuses Famous Athlete of Sexual Assault
Posted by Enrique on 03.10.2010
A question of incentives
As you may have heard, last week Pittsburgh Steelers quarterback Ben Roethlisberger was accused of committing sexual assault at a Georgia nightclub. You certainly didn't hear the name of his accuser, since it's standard practice for authorities and the press to preserve the anonymity of women who make allegations of sexual predation.
Funny, isn't it? (Not ha-ha funny.) A well-known athlete has been accused of a heinous crime, and his accuser's identity is kept confidential. In a free society, is such a practice appropriate? Certainly, some may argue the privacy of women who make rape allegations should be protected, what with the humiliation that results from such a monstrous violation. But that's assuming the allegations are true. What if they're not? What exactly is the disincentive for a woman to make a false accusation of rape?
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Women are human beings, and therefore prone to imperfections, such as occasional exhibits of wanton cruelty and vindictiveness. Men are also human beings, so it's conceivable some males may be prone to rude behavior in the pursuit of sex, and in extreme cases that rude behavior can result in criminal violence. But society at large tends to view accusations of sexual misbehavior by women against men with less than healthy skepticism. This is exemplified in the way police typically withhold the names of women who make rape allegations.
The latest high-profile example of this practice involves two-time Super Bowl winner Ben Roethlisberger, who was accused last week of not understanding no means no:
Pittsburgh Steelers Quarterback Ben Roethlisberger has hired high-profile attorneys today in response to complaints made by a 20-year-old Georgia College & State University student that Roethlisberger allegedly sexually assaulted her early Friday morning at a nightclub in Milledgeville, Ga.
Special Agent Tom Davis of the Georgia Bureau of Investigation said authorities would be reviewing videos from Milledgeville nightclubs Roethlisberger, 28, visited late Thursday and early Friday. Agent Davis said the woman has an attorney but he would not provide the name. [ ]
[Roethlisberger's lawyer] released a statement today which read: "The facts show that there was no criminal activity. No sexual assault occurred. We are cooperating with the investigation. Ben is completely innocent of any crime. The truth of the events should cause this investigation to end without a criminal charge. I will not go into details at this time, but will in the future."
Well, you'd expect him to say that, wouldn't you? As of this writing, there have been no charges filed, and yet a respectable news outfit like CBS is running stories about some young woman named Amber Hanley who was allegedly propositioned by Roethlisberger that same night. The reason we know Hanley's name is she has only accused Big Ben of being impolite if she had accused him of rape, she'd be "a 21-year-old college student." Of course, Hanley's recollection of events is technically irrelevant to the sexual assault allegations against Roethlisberger but that isn't stopping the CBS from reporting it. That would suggest the CBS doesn't think Big Ben deserves the benefit of doubt.
Why doesn't he? We seem to nonchalantly accept the fact a woman's privacy should be protected when she makes an accusation of sexual assault. Maybe we should take a moment to consider the wide cultural latitude we give to allegations that cause incredible damage to a person's reputation. For one thing, what exactly is "sexual assault?" It must be different from "rape." But how different? What range of improprieties fall under the category of "sexual assault?" Does slapping a girl on the ass count? Rude language? I would think "sexual assault" has a wide variety interpretations, which poses a problem when the government is in charge of policing it.
It also poses a problem for the reputation of the man accused of sexual assault. I don't have any handy statistics on the number of sexual assault allegations that turn out to be false, but I'm sure it's more than zero. And when you consider the fact that the accuser receives automatic anonymity, and that the penalties for making false accusations are relatively slight, I wouldn't be surprised if it's much more than zero. That's an awful prospect, especially since accusations of sexual assault are much more destructive than accusations of other crimes. Here's a thought experiment, courtesy of the fine people at Man Woman & Myth:
For example, if a man and a woman are in an elevator and the woman subsequently makes a claim that she was groped by the man, what happens? The ugly truth of the matter is that the man is guilty until proven innocent. However, as there is no way to prove innocence, the man becomes permanently guilty by default. [ ]
Now, compare the allegation of sexual harassment, with an accusation of theft. What if the woman had accused the poor chap of stealing money from her handbag whilst in the elevator? Well there we have a different scenario. There is no instantaneous assumption of guilt. His protestations would be given a fair hearing and people would engage their brains before making a judgement as to likely guilt or innocence.
We would think: "why would he steal from her? He is not a criminal he's a married man with respectable work. An upstanding citizen." With a charge of theft made by a woman against a man, he is innocent until proved guilty. Why is there such a difference in our appraisal of him? What is it about the charge of sex assault against a man that bypasses all of our intellect and short-circuits our normal judgements? Why is he guilty of groping because she says so but unlikely to be guilty of theft because she says so?
Of course, we have no way knowing if Roethlisberger is an upstanding citizen, but we have no evidence he's a predator either. Or do we? As many reports remind us, this isn't the first time Big Ben has been accused of sexual misconduct. In 2008, Roethlisberger was accused of raping a woman in Lake Tahoe actual rape, not "sexual assault." Many people would consider this evidence of Roethlisberger's guilt after all, if you're accused twice of sexual violence, at least one of them must be true, right?
But it's also plausible that famous athletes are more likely than the general public to be targets of false accusations. While it's easy for many people to assume Big Ben is capable of horrible behavior, it's not inconceivable to surmise his accusers may be motivated by something other than righteousness. This AP story from last July reported that local law enforcement officials declined to investigate Big Ben's alleged assault of a "31-year-old Nevada woman." Although that months-old article preserved her confidentiality, we know now her name is Andrea McNulty. The reason we know her name is she filed a civil suit against Roethlisberger, rather than a criminal complaint. Can anyone think of a reason why a woman accusing someone of rape would sue the bastard instead of press charges against the bastard? There's no way to know for certain, but one possible explanation is the accuser is full of shit. (You'll be pleased to know McNulty's attorney is "aggressively looking into" the latest allegations against Roethlisberger.)
It's also possible Roethlisberger is a criminal and deviant. Until charges are filed and the matter is properly adjudicated, we can't know for sure. In view of that, I would suggest we be circumspect about such serious allegations. And we might want to take the opportunity to ask ourselves Why does the law treat a man's reputation as disposable, and a woman's word as beyond reproach? In an era when more women than men graduate from college, and when the unemployment rate for women is lower than for men, perhaps the willingness to view women as perpetual victims is outdated.
Great article, and yes it is time for this to end. Men always seem to get the short end of the stick from the law these days. Women are more likely to get the house and the kids in a divorce. Plus even if the man gets the kids, he still might be paying the woman child support. (Yes it really happens, friend of mine got screwed big time.) A man and a woman who make a baby are equally responsible, but after that the woman has full control. You don't want the kid, too bad your paying anyway. You want the kid, too bad she can have an abortion no matter what you do.
Posted By: Bavitz (Guest) on March 10, 2010 at 09:39 PM
A little over a year ago, one of my friends was accused of rape. The problem? Me and him were at a ball on the supposed date and we managed to take pictures to prove that he was there. However, while he was being accused, I was at a camping trip and I was the one with the pictures on my card. Somehow, everyone knew he was being accused and he was blacklisted from just about everywhere. When I showed up with proof of the date and pictures he was eventually let go. However, that I know of, nothing happened to the accuser which is bullshit seeing as he was in danger of losing his job. Woman who accuse someone of rape and there is no doubt she made it up, there should be punishment.
Posted By: BKS (Guest) on March 10, 2010 at 11:30 PM
Pathetic.
Rapelisburger is guilty as fuck. I hope when they show the tape that they have of the incident you apologize.
This chick is not going after money, she is working with the police.
And the only reason the other chick could not pursue charges is because nobody would believe her...so she made his life hell and is going to take some of his money in the process.
If anyone is being treated unjustly its these girls...not some dipshit QB with an ugly problem that a millions can't fix.
Posted By: Grant Muioc (Guest) on March 10, 2010 at 11:35 PM
"What exactly is the disincentive for a woman to make a false accusation of rape?"
That might be the dumbest thing I've read on the internet. Enrique, you've topped yourself in the race to the bottom.
I've got an idea - let's try this phrase and just change out the subject, shall we?
"What exactly is the disincentive for a child to make a false accusation of abuse?"
- or -
"What exactly is the disincentive for a man to make a false accusation of unwanted sexual advances by another man?"
- or -
"What exactly is the disincentive for a politician to make a false accusation of WMDs or terrorism?"
- how about -
"What exactly is the disincentive for Enrique to make a false accusation of a rape victim making it up?"
I'm not sure what's more messed up - that phrase, or the fact that Enrique so easily assumes that odds are it's just a gold digging woman trying to frame a famous athlete. Do I know if it happened? Of course not - nobody except those two people do. But I'm not about to jump to conclusions about motive. What's more likely - a guy got horny and drunk, or a woman schemed to get him arrested after faking a sexual attack and setting herself up to be demonized by a blogger who hates women?
Bottom of the barrel, Enrique.
Posted By: GaryML (Guest) on March 10, 2010 at 11:39 PM
'I'm not sure what's more messed up - that phrase, or the fact that Enrique so easily assumes that odds are it's just a gold digging woman trying to frame a famous athlete.'
Why don't you ask Kobe Bryant or any one of the members of the Duke Lacrosse team you white-knighting jackass?
This happens every day all over the country. If every single case of alleged sexual misconduct by a man was made public in the same way, you'd understand this article. I personally know 18 women who have claimed to be raped at one point in time, and 12 of them still associate socially with the man who allegedly did it.
The only reason people want to blame Roethlisberger and Bryant off the bat is because of American idiocy. The public loves to see its celebrities fall. Stop being such a tool and open your eyes.
Posted By: Bastard (Guest) on March 11, 2010 at 01:28 AM
I like how everyone assumes a dude with millions and a pro athlete to boot can't get chicks. Really? I mean really?
It's far more likely that she's a gold digger or he blew her off and she got angry than he kept coming after her when there are millions of women that want to sex him up. I mean the average nerd has to all but rape a girl to get any, and it takes them a lifetime even working on one girl, but Ben is a rich jock, pussy throws itself on him.
But the laws and public sentiment are the way they are because men want it that way. An elite group of rich men make the laws, and these are the laws they sought to impose, and this is the system they created. In an alleged democracy, if the majority of men had an overwhelming problem with this, they'd do something about it.
In reality nobody does though, so the system is not a problem. A couple of men whine here and there, and I'm sure a bunch more get dragged through the process when they shouldn't be as the comments section has shown, but it's a policy decision. In the past rape was virtually impossible to prove and rape victims frequently did not get justice, so the system compensated the other way and now some women are taking advantage of it. It's gone too far this direction and maybe it will get adjusted to a more moderate stance, but maybe it won't.
If you read some case law back in the 70s there are cases where a 6' tall mental patient goes and picks up a 4'10 girl drags her off somewhere and fucks her, and it's not legally rape because she wasn't "fighting back" or there were no witnesses that she was fighting back. Obviously that is just outright idiocy. That's just to give perspective on how dumb it was back then, and obviously people know how dumb it is now where every case with no witnesses is an auto rape conviction without evidence.
Posted By: Guest#3620 (Guest) on March 11, 2010 at 08:26 AM
Unfortunatly when things involve celebrities, the first reaction is that its false and just a money grab. One sports commentator added to this story by saying that Wayne Gretzky used to make sure he was NEVER in an elevator alone with a woman, just in case, god forbid, she used that to try and make up a crime and get a quick pay out to shut her up. The sad thing is, thats been done before so its no wodner people dont believe these woman. Hell woman that are knowingly in a relationship with a married man *coughtigerwoodscough* turn around and use that for a money grab.
Posted By: Huh? (Guest) on March 11, 2010 at 09:27 AM
i had a friend in college who falsely accused. nothing happened as the alleged victim accussed anyone who looked at her wrong of rape. i felt more sorry for in the end (that is another story).
as for big ben, guilty or not, the media coverage of this latest accusation pales in comparison to tiger woods' very legal affair. woods was raked over the coals for having consenual sex. meanwhile seems to be getting a pass for his SECOND sexaul assault accussation.
Posted By: rey (Guest) on March 11, 2010 at 10:09 AM
"I personally know 18 women who have claimed to be raped at one point in time, and 12 of them still associate socially with the man who allegedly did it."
Okay, that's the second dumbest thing I've read on the internet. Does anybody believe you actually KNOW 18 women? Girls on World of Warcraft don't count.
Posted By: GaryML (Guest) on March 11, 2010 at 10:58 AM
Hell has frozen over. I agree with GaryML.In fact, Garys argument can not be beat.I have been critical of you in the past, but you and Grant did a wonderful job breaking this horrible article down. WELL DONE GARY.
Enrique, I am a fan, but this was awful. Big Ben seems to have aproblem. If you ever have a daughter, I think your outlook might change.
Poor article. You can do better than that.Duke lacrosse aside, the sympathy argument for people who push themselves on women based on social status is sick.
Posted By: John (Guest) on March 11, 2010 at 11:46 AM
As a Steelers fan, I cringed when I first heard about this. My initial reaction was to hope I haven't been cheering for a predator.
Ten years ago a coworker made a false accusation that I was obsessed with her to try and get me fired. Her motive? After spending months leading me on and finally getting me to pursue her, she informed me we'd never be together and she had no idea why I thought otherwise. When I didn't go to pieces, she made a complaint hoping a third party would tell her that no man could get over her so easily. Had an office full of people not known better than to believe her, I don't know what I'd be doing today.
Some men do awful things, but some women will lie to destroy a man's life if they stand to gain even slightly from it.
The fact that Ben's lawyer came forward to quickly state in no uncertain terms "Ben is completely innocent of any crime" combined with the existence of security footage makes me lean toward believing him. There's no Mike Vick style "when the facts are in I will be vindicated" nuance here. No hedging in case his guilt is ultimately proven, when a public claim of innocence would damn him at sentencing.
On a general note, athletes need to stay the hell out of clubs. Those places are breeding grounds for trouble.
Posted By: Jason Douglas (Guest) on March 11, 2010 at 03:08 PM
"Great article, and yes it is time for this to end. Men always seem to get the short end of the stick from the law these days. Women are more likely to get the house and the kids in a divorce. Plus even if the man gets the kids, he still might be paying the woman child support. (Yes it really happens, friend of mine got screwed big time.) A man and a woman who make a baby are equally responsible, but after that the woman has full control. You don't want the kid, too bad your paying anyway. You want the kid, too bad she can have an abortion no matter what you do."
Fuck you and your inferiority complex.
This isn't just an issue of gender inequality. The practice of not naming a rape victim applies across the entire spectrum, including male-on-male and female-on-female which is already woefully unreported and would be even moreso if this practice was discontinued. I know this because I'm in the military and a little over two or years ago there was a case at an Air Force Base where a guy did exactly that, drugging and raping many of his male friends that he would invite over to party. It was finally reported, but only after about six or seven victims. Why? Because no one wanted the stigma of being thought of as gay or were just too ashamed to admit they'd been sexually assaulted by another man.
That's also ignoring the abuse heaped upon victims by assholes like you when their identities are revealed. Often, victims will receive phone calls, taunts, and various other kinds of abuse by people with this mentality. Today, no one believes rape occurs because of rape apologists like this. It's always, "She's lying," or "She's after money."
This practice shouldn't stop. The only change that should be made is that both the accuser and the accused should go unnamed and the case should be closed to the public until a verdict is rendered. At that point, it's up to the judge to decide whether or not the case should be sealed.
Posted By: Guest#3809 (Guest) on March 11, 2010 at 03:21 PM
Great overall observation how the opposite sex gets the better end of the deal when sexual assault or molestation is involved. I think it is bad for a guy to be a high profile sports athlete and at the same time have someone like tiger who HAS a scattered past with sex. But, like him or hate him, what it is, is what it is. Ben is not tiger or Kobi and it is not a wrong place wrong time. If he did this, I am sure he would be different than the other athlete/stars I mentioned above. If he agrees to a settlement that could go either way as well.
Great article Enrique!
Posted By: Guest#0502 (Guest) on March 11, 2010 at 03:40 PM
If it was a black woman the media would get up on their soap box and make a big deal about it, like with Duke Lacrosse probably, either that or they learned their lesson from the Tyson, Lacrosse, Kobe and first Ben cases. So many of these have been total BS, you can't blame the media for having a slower trigger finger now.
Posted By: Guest#0290 (Guest) on March 11, 2010 at 04:15 PM
And the only reason the other chick could not pursue charges is because nobody would believe her...so she made his life hell and is going to take some of his money in the process.
Posted By: Grant Muioc (Guest) on March 10, 2010 at 11:35 PM
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No one would believe her because she emailed a friend about having a dinner date with Mr. Roethlisberger AFTER she was supposedly raped. Get your facts straight next time.
Posted By: MasterShake (Guest) on March 11, 2010 at 04:20 PM
"Rapelisburger is guilty as fuck. I hope when they show the tape that they have of the incident you apologize."
Wait...you were there and witnessed the whole thing? No? Then shut the fuck up because your making an assumption. Ever Innocent until proven guilty? Not in Gran Muioc's World. He is guilty because Grant knows better.
Pathetic.
Posted By: MydniteSon (Guest) on March 11, 2010 at 07:43 PM
People who attack Enrique are more than missing the point, you're proving it. The point is that you can't just assume one side or the other is right.
Posted By: Guest#9308 (Guest) on March 11, 2010 at 08:11 PM
"I like how everyone assumes a dude with millions and a pro athlete to boot can't get chicks. Really? I mean really?
It's far more likely that she's a gold digger or he blew her off and she got angry than he kept coming after her when there are millions of women that want to sex him up. I mean the average nerd has to all but rape a girl to get any, and it takes them a lifetime even working on one girl, but Ben is a rich jock, pussy throws itself on him."
You're missing the entire point of rape. Rapists generally aren't interested in the sex. Most are control freaks or get off on the act of dominance. Ted Bundy, for example, is generally credited as being attractive enough that he could have picked up women under normal circumstances but he chose to rape and murder because he got off on it, not necessarily the sex itself but act of controlling his victims. So being able to get men/women easily under normal circumstances doesn't mean someone still won't be willing to commit rape.
There's also the point that his millions makes it easier for him to pull something like this off. Celebrities generally don't receive the same punishment as normal people, if at all. They have access to better attorneys, generally receive more sympathy in the public eye, and have a much easier time getting their side of a story across. It's to the point now that any celebrity accused of rape is automatically considered innocent and their accuser a gold digger, a sentiment not so ironically showcased in the comments in this very thread.
I'm not saying Ben is guilty. I'm just saying that this type of response is just plain awful reasoning. It creates an environment that all but excuses rich athletes of committing crimes because it "seems" unlikely.
Posted By: Guest#8507 (Guest) on March 12, 2010 at 02:26 AM
Valid point -- while I think we (possibly unfortunately) need to keep the system in its current state for now, to reduce the certainty of the accuser being ripped apart in the media by the defense -- whether or not they're telling the truth -- I do feel like there should be notable consequences for egregiously false cases. (Like, for example, the woman that accused Fatty Arbuckle of raping and killing a woman, when in truth she was a known con artist, and Arbuckle was -exonerated by the jury- -- which I've never heard of happening before or since -- yet not only did she not suffer any consequences, Arbuckle STILL got blacklisted. Seriously. I mean it was the twenties, but come ON.)
Posted By: MadmanJack (Guest) on March 13, 2010 at 05:49 AM
Despite the outcome....If you are close to 30...why the hell are you hanging out at college bars? Even if he didn't rape anyone, Ben is a moron.
Posted By: Johnny Israel (Guest) on March 14, 2010 at 06:41 PM
Ben Rapistburger hit on women all the time during his time at Miami U. Won't you call the Oxford PD and see what they might have. When Ben drinks, he's crazy.
Posted By: Parallax (Guest) on March 16, 2010 at 02:17 PM